Hello there :D
I am not trying to be rude or anything, but you can always pm the person instead of making a thread about it :D
Just click a link to a person's profile, in that little pop up window, there will be an option called (Start a new Conversation) just do that and you can privately talk to who ever you want :D
I am assuming that you did not know this and this thread was only a mistake so....... now you know for the future :D