I would rather be forgotten, because I simply cannot handle people who hate me because I seem to always find myself the reason why they hate me and instantaneously feel guilty so I end up beating myself up over it. In the end people will always forget each other over time, and we'll become a memory, nothing more or less. This is common amongst us, although being hated is too but for some people it's harder to let go of a grudge.
Everyone was forgotten at one point by someone, so why go through something you'd rather not by someone who sheerly despises you?