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You didn't think that post I made on the Solitude ideas thread was it, did you? I mean, I only barely touched on the whole post deletions thing and even that was as a plea to not delete the perfectly on-topic post again.

Needless to say, I'll be more than touching on that subject in this thread. I'd go for a more explicit picture but I don't think parquette would like that very much.

(to vatu/psycho: please don't delete this, like, seriously, i beg of you; it breaks precisely zero rules, i get to make the topic so it's perfectly on-topic and i promise, this is not a joke nor a meme, so please no triggerings and deletings)

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Two things I want to rant about:

1) do you people have no comprehension of what a joke is
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2) we literally had a whole discussion about stupid post deletions why are you still doing it


First things first, the thing I want to be absolutely clear about is: when I say shit like this,
the zero players thing really adds to the atmosphere tbh, good job with that
it's a joke. Vatumok understood this, so you have no excuse there.

"But Ender, why does it matter? It's a shitty joke and I'm offended by it!"

I concede both points to you. Mostly because they're both subjective. And irrelevant. If I make a joke and you decide you're offended by it for whatever reason, that's on you. I didn't mean for it to be offensive and it's not as obviously offensive as me saying "gas the jews", either. It's just a matter of interpretation and that's entirely your part, not mine.

Now, the part that really tickles my funny bone is the one where Major_Bryan waltzes along and says that my behaviour is inappropriate for a staff member and that I'm toxic because of it. No, dear ex-admin, the thing that's toxic to this community is the fact that every time someone makes a joke, tries to lighten the mood, tries to get some laughs out of people, some self-entitled (ex)staff with an incurable holier-than-thou attitude comes along and says I'm an asshole for making a joke that's so inconsiderate and immature and whatnot.

Every single time there has been conflict between you and me it has been because someone made a joke and then you just had to zone in on it with your trigger-radar and come and poop right in the middle of the party. And sure, I could accept that my joke was pretty bad as well and all and move on, which is what I try to do, but then you decide that just pooping isn't good enough, you have to throw it in our faces as well.

Just drop your dislike if it's so bad and spare me the further drama, I haven't broken any rules.


BUT WAIT
There's more!

Not only do they jump at my throat for doing nothing wrong, really, they also delete the posts they find to be off-topic or just stupid. Again, I won't argue them being off-topic or stupid, because, again, this is entirely irrelevant. There are zero rules against off-topic or stupid posts and they don't need to be moderated in any way, or if they should, then for the love of god, make it clear in the rules.

So basically, the real reason that my posts (and Aqua's, which afaik wasn't even off-topic) were deleted was because Vatumok just didn't like them.

Seriously?

After we had this... and this... and this...?

After Aqua started whining about it on mod chat, there was a positively surprising amount of staff members supporting him and saying that Vatu might have gone overboard a bit. It wasn't even that hostile, it was just saying that "maybe consider more carefully the next time". The result was, of course, eternal salt, but that was expected.

Vatu, and everyone else who thinks silent deletions are the way to go when moderating a forum: they really aren't.

First of all, you don't moderate things just because you don't like them. No rules were broken, you had no grounds to delete.
Secondly, even if you still decide to moderate, you don't delete, because you have a variety of other options available to you, such as, but probably not limited to: an unofficial warning, an official warning, an edit, a post detailing why I shouldn't do the things you don't like without deleting it, a private message detailing why I shouldn't do the things you don't like. All these options are more proportional to whatever damage you think was done and also have the advantage of not making you look like a salty dictator as well.
Thirdly, even if you still decide to delete, why the hell do you have to do it silently? Like, I'd appreciate a notification or a reason for my post being deleted. It doesn't make you look less a dictator, but it does make you look less a cunt. Not that I'm saying that you are a cunt, that would be a personal attack.

And then you wonder why other staff don't agree with you. You really could take their advice, that way we wouldn't have the "staff aboose, the vatumoose is loose aboot the hoose saying shoosh and the posts go woosh" situations popping up all the time.

To be fair, I'm not even staff any more, so why should my opinion matter? I'm only one pesky little memer that never says anything of value. Never mind that this has been brought up countless times before and this whole thing is supposed to be community-driven. You can all just go along the same route of shadow demotions and silent deletions. Ain't nobody gonna fuck with your perfect little community.
 

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FYI I wasn't whining. But yeah, if vatu thinks that a forum mod should always be polite and sincere...


explain this:


Aqua - Today at 6:46 PM but yeah... I think the morale of the story here is @Arjen "Vatu" Needs to have a Positive. Mental. Attitude.(◕‿◕✿)
Arjen "Vatu" - Today at 6:47 PM fuck off
There are loads more, sadly discord is being bad and wont load all the messages from last nights little shindig in the mod forums but oh well. =(

I honestly believe that vatu should be demoted at this point more than I should lmao, it would be nice if an admin could do that considering he has broken pretty much all rules in just 24 hours alone.
 

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Just to emphasise on the silent deletion part, that's really something that should NOT be done.
I get moderation is needed, but why do it silently? We're a community. Things should be discussed openly. If you delete silently, it makes it look like you're trying to hide things from the community and discourage open discussion , basically limiting the functionality of it.
Besides, people WILL find out if their posts are deleting... you're not hiding anything successfully. Alongside that, people WILL complain if there's not much explanation and clarification. Silently deleting solves nothing, it just creates more problems for mostly yourself and makes yourself come off as a prick to the community alongside it.
Wouldn't it be better to discuss these deletions and reach common ground - as a community, because that's what escape restart is - rather than silently deleting? It's far more constructive.
 

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well

guess how aqua's completely legitimate and on topic posts showing how vatu has his panties in a twist with every move we make was dealt with
Literally a prime example of what I was saying. If you have the nerve to just delete posts (also there was absolutely nothing wrong with it, just legitimate quotes), then at least explain to the community why they're being deleted. If there was a legitimate reason to delete it, then what is it? If it's legitimate, there's nothing to hide, only to discuss.
Otherwise, you're just suppressing discussion, encouraging stagnancy and inciting complaints.
 

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I completely agree, but this isn't even the tip of the iceberg of problems.

Psycho claims (in PM) to have demoted Enderfive along with Jivvi (who was "called out" in that Let's Talk thread) to improve the image of staff. Hell, even my maf perms were revoked without a single word as to why, and I didn't even have a public title. Shadow-demoting people for memes? Really? In the past, people were demoted and banned without public explanation when it was some serious shit like sexual harassment or emotional abuse. Not petty shit like this.

The let's talk thread was a good example of why he shouldn't be in his position.
And then there's Jub.

http://escaperestart.com/forum/threads/addressing.18565/page-3

This was where Psycho threatened to find a reason to get him banned if he continued to "misbehave". And after he was banned, Psy doesn't even give Jub the time of day, disrespectfully blowing him off and not even explaining why he's treated so harshly, hell, at this point they're a symbol for something or other. When Aots was appealing a while back, malc did similar and publicly apologized after it was revealed.

Who watches the admins? No one, in this case. Psycho, Vatumok, and Bryan in the past have pushed their agenda for greater control of the community + more Minecraft stuff while putting a stranglehold on any snark directed their way.

And now it's led to undiscussed, silent revoking of perms and moderator status. Psycho even added a personal rekt rating to celebrate the occasion.

If this isn't rectified, I can honestly say there's little reason to stay within the community and might just up and leave after this last maf game is done, and urge others to do the same if they agree.
 
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Now, the part that really tickles my funny bone is the one where Major_Bryan waltzes along and says that my behaviour is inappropriate for a staff member and that I'm toxic because of it. No, dear ex-admin, the thing that's toxic to this community is the fact that every time someone makes a joke, tries to lighten the mood, tries to get some laughs out of people, some self-entitled (ex)staff with an incurable holier-than-thou attitude comes along and says I'm an asshole for making a joke that's so inconsiderate and immature and whatnot.
honestly I getting so fucking tired of this behavior
 
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Honestly I made this a while back for when my next post gets deleted but I figure post it here


First they came for the LoLer, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a LoLer.

Then they came for the shitposter, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a shitposter.

Then they came for the memers, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not memers.

Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me
 

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Who watches the admins?.
:D

Not that i'll take any side in this discussion, given how i knee-jerked at the last drama-fest i'd rather see this one unfolds before intervening, but can I advise actually starting a private discourse with the admins to discuss this rather than trying to publicly shame them into a response? Because as i see it either

- You have tried to discuss it privately with them, and they still don't inform you when you delete your posts (in which case prep yo pitchforks folks!).
- You haven't tried to discuss it privately with them in which case this thread is a waste of time.

I know, we just had this chat publicly, you shouldn't have to privately message them asking them to notify you, but it really isn't a huge amount to ask.
 

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:D

Not that i'll take any side in this discussion, given how i knee-jerked at the last drama-fest i'd rather see this one unfolds before intervening, but can I advise actually starting a private discourse with the admins to discuss this rather than trying to publicly shame them into a response? Because as i see it either

- You have tried to discuss it privately with them, and they still don't inform you when you delete your posts (in which case prep yo pitchforks folks!).
- You haven't tried to discuss it privately with them in which case this thread is a waste of time.
there was, I posted a link to the log of the entire thing, it was deleted.
 

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- You have tried to discuss it privately with them, and they still don't inform you when you delete your posts (in which case prep yo pitchforks folks!).
- You haven't tried to discuss it privately with them in which case this thread is a waste of time.
well i mean we did try it when this sort of a confrontation first happened and all the stuff that followed

we did discuss these specific events in mod chat/forums earlier

we kind of ran into the wall of "fuck off"
 

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well i mean we did try it when this sort of a confrontation first happened and all the stuff that followed

we did discuss these specific events in mod chat/forums earlier

we kind of ran into the wall of "fuck off"
To clarify, did you privately message psycho/admins discussing this specific incident, as i said in my post - yes you shouldn't have to given the recent drama but it's a small ask to save a ridiculous amount of hassle.
 

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To clarify, did you privately message psycho/admins discussing this specific incident, as i said in my post - yes you shouldn't have to given the recent drama but it's a small ask to save a lot of hassle.
we discussed these last specific events in mod chat and forums, yes

as i said, we (aqua and i) were met with "fuck off" from vatu, who was the deleter and i was met with a demotion from psycho

to be fair vatu did seem fairly pissed by the time i got there so perhaps i was only adding fuel to the fire, but my intentions were pure
 

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Enderfive Just refering back to what seemed to spark this off, I don't get why you couldn't of just made your second post on your points about solitude instead of your joke.. Which tbf was gonna spark some anger. The second post was valid and useful. Why go for what wasn't particularly useful or funny (to me, like you said, it's all subjective)
 

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no it was on discord.... PLEASE LET ME POST THE LOGS IT TOOK ME SO LONG TO CONDENSE IT OMFG
so they deleted your stuff on discord ;-;?..

I'm so very confused now - from what I can see thusfar, vatumok deleted multiple posts on that thread that were off-topic, regardless of if you found them funny or not, or whether you like him or not, or your opinion of his staffing ability - that was perfectly within his rights. He left a post behind explaining why - if this is the case then this thread really is just an unnecessary attempt to rock the boat.
 

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Enderfive Just refering back to what seemed to spark this off, I don't get why you couldn't of just made your second post on your points about solitude instead of your joke.. Which tbf was gonna spark some anger. The second post was valid and useful. Why go for what wasn't particularly useful or funny (to me, like you said, it's all subjective)
oh, well, i had no intention of contributing anything particularly useful to the thread at that point, it was literally meant to be taken as a joke

your dislikes were well received as i can see in retrospect why you might think it wasn't a good joke, the problem for me was when out of nowhere, major bryan says i'm an asshole and vatumok deletes both the joke and the next post i made, the one that was legitimate and on topic

Wait, just to clarify - the thread in question is http://escaperestart.com/forum/threads/staff-morale-staff-morale.19614/#post-378879 - where vatumok made a post explaining the post deletions, or?
i can't really see that thread any more, so i'll go with a definite maybe


overall the issue here is that vatu and bryan don't like us and either consciously or unconsciously seek out stuff we do that they could shit on us for

i mean i've never been one for holding myself back or shying away from controversy but you can't call someone an asshole when all they do is make jokes in their own way or delete the posts just because you don't like them when they don't actually break any rules and then say you're only trying to prevent shit
 

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oh, well, i had no intention of contributing anything particularly useful to the thread at that point, it was literally meant to be taken as a joke

your dislikes were well received as i can see in retrospect why you might think it wasn't a good joke, the problem for me was when out of nowhere, major bryan says i'm an asshole and vatumok deletes both the joke and the next post i made, the one that was legitimate and on topic


i can't really see that thread any more, so i'll go with a definite maybe


overall the issue here is that vatu and bryan don't like us and either consciously or unconsciously seek out stuff we do that they could shit on us for

i mean i've never been one for holding myself back or shying away from controversy but you can't call someone an asshole when all they do is make jokes in their own way or delete the posts just because you don't like them when they don't actually break any rules
whoops, my mistake, this post. http://escaperestart.com/forum/threads/solitude-needs-your-ideas.19608/#post-378840

see the above anyway, " from what I can see thusfar, vatumok deleted multiple posts on that thread that were off-topic, regardless of if you found them funny or not, or whether you like him or not, or your opinion of his staffing ability - that was perfectly within his rights. He left a post behind explaining why - if this is the case then this thread really is just an unnecessary attempt to rock the boat."

Sorry, just trying to put together a timeline of events.
 

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whoops, my mistake, this post. http://escaperestart.com/forum/threads/solitude-needs-your-ideas.19608/#post-378840

see the above anyway, " from what I can see thusfar, vatumok deleted multiple posts on that thread that were off-topic, regardless of if you found them funny or not, or whether you like him or not, or your opinion of his staffing ability - that was perfectly within his rights. He left a post behind explaining why - if this is the case then this thread really is just an unnecessary attempt to rock the boat."
There are zero rules against off-topic or stupid posts and they don't need to be moderated in any way, or if they should, then for the love of god, make it clear in the rules.
 

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With the best of respect, how the admins and staff choose to run the forums is their prerogative, and if they feel your post doesn't contribute to the discussion and is in fact counter productive (the mere fact people found it insulting makes it counterproductive to the discussion at hand), that is their choice to remove it, this is how it has always been handled, this is how it should always be handled, this is how it will always be handled.

Being removed from a discussion for not contributing really is nothing new - either on the internet or in reality, and should (hopefully...) not come as such.
 
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